If my wife ever had a boyfriend or fuck buddy, then this is what I would want to do...watch him fuck her, and then me clean out her pussy and give her orgasms while he gets ready for round 2... Maybe if we both make her cum so hard that she forgets her name, she'll forget her birth control pill too...
lol. I've always been bi, but as I aged I was getting more interested in cock. I'm not quite ready to say that I'm gay, pussy and swinging still would be a turn on, but I think given the choice, I'd take cock.
I imagine it would be difficult. My wife lost interest after menopause, and I curtailed a lot of my play. I still enjoy sucking a cock, but I don't get as many opportunities now. I really miss seeing her enjoy fucking other men and getting to join, and help.
We had many great time as a group. I quit attending after she died suddenly it was to hard after all the fun we had as a couple. I did return a couple times but it wasn’t the same. And being the only single guy there
I was the only one that was bi. My wife tried bi with a couple that we swapped with often, but it just wasn't her thing. I agree with you about enjoying having sex with men while the wife watches. It was a huge turn on for me to have a cock in my mouth and have my wife taking pictures or rubbing her pussy before joining me. Having a bi group would be ideal. I wish we could have belonged to a group like that.